Thursday, September 6, 2007

Making Friends: Natural Conversation Starters

Although many English textbooks teach students to say, "Hello. What's your name?", how often do we really begin conversations this way? Almost never. Imagine you are on a bus, and someone asks you, "Hello. What's your name?" I would be taken back and very surprised. So, how would you strike up a natural conversation in any one of these situations?:

- waiting for a train
- relaxing on a park bench
- standing in line for a movie
- sitting in a soccer stadium waiting for the match to begin
- attending a wedding of a friend

Personally, at a soccer game, I might simply say something like, "Well, I really hope the team wins this match. They haven't been doing so well recently", or something like that. Now, share your ideas.

Randall

2 comments:

  1. Of course, if you intent to make friends, become talkative is more important thing you need to notice. As my experience, it is easy to get friend at the place I used to stay, like school, or office. When I speak to the person that I don’t know his name, I don’t ask his name at first sight, I might say some thing like “what are you doing there?” or “are you happen to know…”, than I will ask the name. I agree that it is not a good idea when you ask somebody’s name to have a conversation. By the way, “asking for help” is also easy to get close to the stranger. Matt hsu.

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  2. -waiting for a train
    The train seems to be delayed, doesn't it?
    -relaxing on the park bench
    What nice weather, isn't it?
    -standing in line for a movie
    We have been expecting this movie for a long time, haven't we?
    -attending a wedding of a friend
    They are made for each other, aren't they?

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Thanks for posting a comment. I appreciate your interesting in sharing your ideas.

Best,

Randall

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